Chore Monster - FREE Chore Motivation

We have used various Pinterest methods for keeping track and motivating our kids to keep up with their chores. I've even made a super cute chalkboard with adorable chore magnets. But keeping up with them has always been the hardest part. And then there's the question of "rewarding" them for doing chores. Should we? It feels like I've heard parenting experts on both sides of that argument and I've agreed with them all. Which just left me stuck in the middle.

This is why I was excited to try Chore Monster. It's a FREE* App available for Android, Apple, even Windows 8, but is also free to use through their website, if you don't have any of these devices. I like that it's easy to use and completely up to me what is included - what chores my kids do, the frequency with which they're expected to do them, and how many points they'll earn for completing a task. And then, I get to decide what those points will do for them.

This is what we've done:

Each of our kids have their own account with their own chores listed. They have many of the same (like setting the table, clearing the table, picking up toys and cleaning their rooms), but as they get older, they get more responsibilities, so the older two (ages 4 and 6) empty the kids' dishes and silverware from the dishwasher and also have bathroom cleaning duties (alternating weekly between who does the counters and who scrubs the toilets - they like the toilet best, so it's a good way to keep them from arguing) - with which Mommy helps, still, to train them how to do it well. And the oldest is also now washing her own clothes (again, with training assistance), so she gets extra points for that, as well. At the end of the day (or, frankly, when we remember, we check into the app to get points for the chores they've done. They have an option for the points to not be added into the kids' accounts until a parent approves the chore (which is done via the parent log-in on the website only), but since we're always sitting together when the kids are "doing points", I made all of their chores approve automatically, so they can immediately see their new total.

I've determined what each chore is worth, and I've actually edited this a number of times, as the chores become easier, or if I feel like they're accumulating too quickly. But I also determine the rewards. So, right now, our kids have three rewards options - iPad time, Computer time or something from the Treasure Box.

This is where this app has become gold for me. My kids used to always beg to play on the iPad or computer and would argue over who got more time, etc. Since we've started using points for these activities, I haven't had any begging or arguing! I LOVE it! They understand if they didn't use their points, it's not their turn. (Just like not letting them get points is a good consequence if they're refusing to do a task - if they fuss and complain, they still have to do it, but don't get points!) Also, I still get to determine when we cash in our points - so if it's not a good day for playing on electronics or we just don't have time, I tell them they can't spend their points right now.

The Treasure Box is a box we have filled with little toys from the Dollar Tree, as well as fun craft toys I found on clearance for $0.30 each at JoAnn - which means my kids work for two weeks to earn points for something that cost me $0.30. And they love it. Way cheaper than allowance (not that we won't get to allowance at some point, but right now I like that they're learning the concept of saving or spending - because the Treasure costs more, so they decide if they will save up for that, or spend points on a lesser activity - without interfering with my budget).

And the absolute best part? They're getting in the habit of doing chores. Which means, we don't necessarily sit down every day and check off their points - and they don't always notice. If they ask about it or I happen to remember, we'll check in and click on the things they've done. If we forget, they don't typically think about it. So, even though it may feel like I'm bribing my kids to do what they should be doing - they are still doing what they should, even without the points.

I call that a win.

*There are options within the app for the kids to earn tickets to an in-app carnival, to buy monsters, etc. It seems like a fun idea, but those aspects cost money, so right now, my kids don't even know that's an option. We're perfectly happy with the rewards we have in place and there isn't a ton of pressure (or anywhere for the kids to click when they're logged in) to buy in-app prizes. But if that's something you think would be fun to motivate your kids, you might want to look into that more!

** I receive no compensation for this review. They didn't even ask me to do it. I honestly just feel like it could help more families, so I wanted to tell others about it! Enjoy!

Home-Designed Feelings Charts - Free Download!

In our recent move, I have unearthed various treasures, some of which had been out before but have now been discovered by little fingers who couldn't see them in the old house. One of these is this little gem from my husband's earlier years (I'm not sure how much earlier - probably as late as college, let's be honest):

That would be a giant fridge magnet featuring Garfield and his many moods - complete with a frame selector so the owner can indicate their own Garfield-esque emotions. Classy, I know.

And the kids have enjoyed it. Maybe a little too much. Because, of course, when you have one of something fun and more than one child, someone will always be unhappy. Thus, after a morning of bickering, I realized I had paper and I had magnets, so we would make everyone their own chart and create peace in our home once again. 

Of course, I had imagined drawing a happy face and a sad face and maybe a little sleepy face with zzz's on a piece of paper and calling it good - I might have even let them draw the faces, so I could be lazy they could practice their art skills. My kids have higher ambitions.

So, the older boy declared he would have Mario Party (aka, anything having to do with Super Mario Bros) - which led sister to demand My Little Pony. I told them I'd see what I could do, but I needed nap time to work on it, if they were willing to wait. Fortunately, they were more than happy to see what Mommy would come up with. So, they glitterized their magnet frames (made from a free magnet sheet that had once had ads for local businesses) and waited patiently (with the one caveat provided by my little opinionated ones that they each have "Smart" as an option on their list).

And then Mommy had a little too much fun searching the internet for just the right pictures (and took some creative license on the character of choice for Little Miss - so glad Super Princess Peach displays a lot of emotion). They were pretty happy with the results.

 (We keep Garfield up for littlest man who is too small to realize he's getting shafted by not having a personalized chart.)

The free magnets are maybe not so strong, but they're good enough. I also used glue dots to attach small magnet squares to the back of the charts so they are easily moved, if needed. I would have laminated them had the magnet frames been strong enough to hold through that kind of thickness.

And after I put in so much work, I decided to share with the world in case there are other Mommies, with maybe less ambition or free time, who have their own emotional little ones. And, maybe, if those Mommies don't want to glitterize free magnet sheets, they can use photo frames and dry erase markers (or dry erase colored pencils, or crayons - I'm pretty into dry erase media!)?

So, here are the .jpg images - feel free to download them (or click on them to open them larger and right click to "Save As") and insert them into a Word Document to re-size and print as needed! But, please note, I don't own the rights to any of these characters or their images (um, hello, if I did, we'd be rich!), so don't try to sell this in any format! Thanks! 

(I included "Lucky" on the original Mario because it was one the kids remembered from the Garfield, and I liked the picture, but I really wanted something more manly that portrayed something equivalent to the "Beautiful" for the girls - so here's a revision with "Brave" - in case you like that better!)

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Keep the Change - Kitchen Substitutes

What do you do when you’re cooking and run out of that one thing you need? Running to the store is costly in both gas and money. Here are some tips from my kitchen. Keep these staple substitutes in your pantry so you’ll be ready when necessity strikes.

-          Eggs – Mix 1 Tbsp cornstarch with 3 Tbsp water (multiply quantities as necessary for multiple eggs) as a quick egg substitute in nearly any baking recipe. This is also a great alternative if you’re cooking for someone with egg allergies.

-          Buttermilk – Pour 1 Tbsp vinegar or lemon juice into your measuring cup and add enough milk to make 1 cup (to sub for 1 cup buttermilk). Stir and let stand 5 minutes.

-          Panko or dry bread crumbs – Crush crackers or potato chips instead.

-          Brown and White sugars are rather interchangeable, when needed (though it's best to stick to what's called for, if possible). Honey is also a great, healthier, substitute for sugar in many recipes.

-          Butter – For many recipes, cooking oil (such as canola or vegetable) can be subbed in. For a healthier alternative, use applesauce to replace the fat called for in a baking recipe.

-          Sour cream and Plain Yogurt is another interchangeable combo. Yogurt is the healthier option and either one will do the trick in your baking or casserole recipes.

-          Tomato Sauce – for chilis, soups and some casseroles, using Condensed Tomato Soup is a quick and easy substitute.

As you can see, recipes are not hard and fast rules. There are many options for making your recipes work with what you have. Next time you run out of something at the last minute, before running to the store, run to your computer and do a quick Google search including the name of the item you lack and the word “substitute” – more often than not, you will find you have just what you need!

Keep the Change: Bringing Up Baby - Affordably

We’re expecting a new little one in this house and, as anyone will tell you, babies can be expensive. What are some ways to save on those baby costs while still giving your little one the best care possible?

-          Cloth diapers. While it’s not everyone’s preference, this is a big money-saver in our house. We’re not talking diaper pins and bulky covers, either. There are some modern options that are convenient and adorable. While this option poses a larger up-front cost (for the investment in a diaper supply), the long-run savings is considerable. There are many resources on-line to help you learn the ropes of this diapering choice. I've written a blog here with a lot of my resources and suggestions.

-          Homemade Baby Food. Yet another personal preference. This does not have to be as difficult as some perceive, though. Just steam your fruits and vegetables (even in the microwave) and use a handy Stick Blender (you don’t even need an expensive Baby-Food specific blender!) to puree. Pour your blend into ice cube trays and freeze for later – they thaw quickly and make for easy, safe meals for baby. Check wholesomebabyfood.com for guidelines and recipes.

-          Garage Sales and Craiglist. These are great options for finding some of those big ticket items at affordable prices. Some things, like car seats, should never be purchased second-hand for safety reasons, but for things that are easy to wash/sterilize (such as clothing, swings, etc.), this can be a good choice – just be sure you trust the brand you’re buying, no matter where you purchase.

-          On-Line Co-Ops. Facebook has a number of Group options for parents looking to use group-buying power for those baby needs (or wants) – you can even find those aforementioned cloth diapers at a much cheaper price when buying in bulk! My favorite co-ops are Tushie Traders, which offers primarily cloth diapers but also many other fun things for baby, and Crunchy Mama, offering many unique finds for baby and mama.

Keep the Change - Bugs Be Gone

Summer seems to bring a lot of unwanted pests in our home. Clearly some infestations require professional help or, at the very least heavy-duty store-bought assistance. But did you know some of those pests can be done away with using simple household ingredients?

If ants are your problem, round up some honey, Borax (found in the laundry detergent aisle and also great for a number of cleaning uses!), and an old plastic lid (such as from a margarine tub). Mix together 1 Tbsp hot water with 1 Tbsp honey . Add ½ tsp Borax to the mixture and stir well. Place mixture in your old lid and put the trap in the center of your problem area (but out of reach of children or pets). The ants will be attracted to the mixture and will carry it back to their colony, poisoning the whole lot of them and ridding you of your problem!

For fruit flies, gather apple cider vinegar, dishwashing detergent, a fruit peel, a jar and a piece of typing paper (junk mail works great!). Mix ¼ c. vinegar, ¼ c. water and 2-3 drops of detergent in the bottom of the jar. Drop in your fruit peel. Make a cone shape out of the paper and stick it in the opening of the jar, making sure there are no gaps between the paper and the opening of the jar. The flies will be attracted to the scent of the fruit and enter the cone. They will then get trapped in the jar and the detergent will weigh them down, causing them to drown and your pests to be gone.

If you need more tips for your household pests, check out ehow.com (where these traps were found) or do a quick internet search to find simple homemade solutions!

Staples: $40 Voucher for $25 + 25% off Coupon!

Check out this great combination of deals from Staples!

Right now Groupon is offering a $40 e-gift card to Staples for only $25 - that's a $15 savings! If you are ever in need of paper or ink how could you pass up this deal?! The e-gift card must be redeemed on-line and printed for use in-store. It is not valid on-line.

To take advantage of this offer:
- Go to this link for the Staples deal and click on the large green "Buy" button.
- Sign in or register where indicated.
- Enter payment info.
- Click on "My Vouchers" under your name in the top right corner of the screen. Find the Staples deal you just bought and click "View Voucher". In the voucher are redemption instructions. You MUST redeem the voucher on-line in order to print your e-gift card to spend in-store.*

On top of the Groupon, through Saturday you can redeem this coupon for a free EcoBag and 20% off anything that can fit inside (some exclusions apply, read the fine print!).

The coupon expires Saturday, so you'd need to hurry if you want to use that, but the Groupon voucher never expires so if you're not ready to rush to Staples, just hold onto it until you need it!

*Fine Print:

• Limit 1 per person. Limit 1 per visit. Must redeem Groupon voucher herefor a Staples eGift Card, which can be used in any participating Staples store. Groupon voucher not accepted in-store. eGift Card never expires. eGift Card valid in-store only; eGift Card not valid at Staples.com. To find a store near you, click here. See Staples Terms & Conditions applicable to Staples eGift Cards here.
• See the rules that apply to all deals.